3 Simple Steps to Being a Good Facebook Friend

Occasionally I like to play games on Facebook. Most games give you more stuff (coins, etc.) if you update your Facebook status automatically. If you are a frequent player, you can blow up your friends’ news feed with your fun. It is simple to be a considerate friend while still playing your games. If you see an update from a friend that indicates her annoyance with game updates, follow these simple steps to stop your game updates from showing up on her news feed.

1) Click the down arrow on Account in the upper right of your Facebook bar. Scroll to Privacy Settings. Click it.

2) Look all the way to the bottom left of the screen. You will see Applications and Websites. Click Edit Your Settings.

3) Click Edit Settings to the right of Game and application activity. Scroll to Custom and click. You have two options: Make this visible to and Hide this from. Add your friend’s name to the Hide box. Save your settings.

Your friend may never notice that you have done this, but she will appreciate your status updates all the more because she is interested in what you say, not what you play.

This post is dedicated to my sparkly and energetic friend, Linda!

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Mayhem on Monday! Accountability Partners Share the Fun…

Twitter and Facebook, the BIG 2 of the social networking scene, have opened up a whole world of ideas for me by linking me up with interesting writers. One of my favorites, Simon Larter and his accountability partner, Mercedes Yardley have a new and spectacularly fun way of keeping each other on task. Each have set personal goals for word and/or page count each day/week. I’ve enjoyed watching as they hold one another responsible for achieving those goals over the past few months. In their newest endeavor, the two collaborate on a serial blog aptly named Mayhem Monday.

Stilettos and Shirley Temples starts at Simon’s blog, Constant Revision, with Part 1 on July 20. The opening salvo is told first-person from Simon’s character. Part 2 posted today at Mercedes blog, A Broken Laptop. The return shot is told first person from Mercedes’ character. The writing is deliciously seductive…a definite flavor of the Bradgelina 2005 hit movie, Mr. and Mrs. Smith.

I am looking forward to following this creative couple of writers as the story develops. You can find Simon as @WritingAgain and Mercedes as @mercedesmy on Twitter. Look for the discussion of the blog serial under the hashtag #MayhemMonday.

This is so much fun that I’m going to suggest it as a writing exercise with my writing group.

How do you stay accountable? Share with us more fun ideas for keeping the creative juices flowing…

UPDATE 8/2/2010: Part 3 of Stilettos and Shirley Temples is up at Constant Revision.

UPDATE 8/9/2010: Part 4 of Stilettos and Shirley Temples is up at The Broken Laptop.

UPDATE 8/16/2010: Part 5 of Stilettos and Shirley Temples is up at Constant Revision. This is my favorite yet. It spurred another Sharing the Writing Life post – Writing a Page Turner: Cliffhanger Practice via Flash Fiction.

UPDATE 8/23/2010: Part 6 of Stilettos and Shirley Temples is up at The Broken Laptop. To catch up on the whole series click on Mercedes tab at the top S&ST.

UPDATE 8/30/2010: Part 7 of Stilettos and Shirley Temples is up at Constant Revision.

UPDATE 9/6/2010: Part 8 of Stilettos and Shirley Temples is up at The Broken Laptop.

UPDATE 9/13/2010: Part 9 of Stilettos and Shirley Temples is up at Constant Revision.

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15 Favorite Twitter Writing Links: Thursday, July 22

Twitter Bird courtesy of http://wefunction.com/2008/07/freebie-twitter-icons-illustration.

I love the agents, editors, and writers who post links on Twitter as helps for up-and-coming writers. These links fall right into the idea behind my Sharing the Writing Life page. My favorite thing is getting access to blogs and websites I might otherwise not have found.

Tweeted by Elizabeth S. Craig:

How to: Write To Be Read (by PATTIANNCOLT @ Jeannie Ruesch’s Happy Endings Blog)

Homework Time (by Terry Odell @ Mystery Writing is Murder)

4 Great Reasons Why You Need an Editor (by Marla Markham @ Our Little Books)

What a Coincidence! (by Joe Moore @ The Kill Zone)

Tweeted by BubbleCow

Before You Submit (by James Scott Bell @ The Kill Zone)

50 Procrastination Techniques for Aspiring Writers (by Suzannah @ Write It Sideways)

6 Reasons a Premise Sentence Strengthens Your Story (by KM Weiland @ WordPlay)

Your Professional Bio: Query Letter and Cover Letter Tips for Writers (@ Writer’s Relief, Inc)

Constructive Criticism & Incandescent Rage (by Michelle Gagnon @ The Kill Zone)

Tweeted by AuthorTerryO

Are You Writing, or Talking About Writing? (by JC Hutchins @ Writer Unboxed)

Guns, Lots of Guns – 10 Tips for Writing About Guns (@ Fiction Matters)

Tweeted by EisleyJacobs

Rejection Blues: Part 2 (by Jim Warner @ QueryTracker.net)

Tweeted by CPatrickShulze

10 Tips for Editing Dialogue in a Novel (@ C. Patrick Shulze.com)

Secrets to Fix Your Novel’s Plot (@ C. Patrick Shulze.com)

Marilee Farber on Being the Conduit For Her Characters (@ YA Highway)

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Avoid Gaping Plot Holes and Other Little Errors

“The most important element of a novel is plot. A plot is a purposeful progression of events. Such events must be logically connected, each being an outgrowth of the preceding and all leading up to a final climax. I stress the word events because you can have a purposeful progression of ideas, or of conversations, without action. But a novel is a story about human beings in action. If you do not present your subject matter in terms of physical action, what you are writing is not a novel.” Ayn Rand

I really hate to be pulled from a story because my logical mind stops me from reading on. A few things do this to me: grammatical errors or misspellings; mistakes in character names; and holes in the plot. I don’t want to be an editor when I am reading for pleasure. Yet the perfectionist in me won’t allow me to skim along ignoring the mistakes that could be avoided. Grammar and spelling errors are not nearly as distracting as plot holes.

Unless the author writes science fiction or fantasy, which naturally expects the audience to suspend belief in order to immerse themselves in the story, she must carefully close all the gaps in her plot. Author Teresa Slack, keynote speaker at the 2010 Dogwood Writers Conference, described a scene in a book she had recently read, in which a small female police officer had a huge male criminal on the floor with her gun trained on him. The officer had no back-up. The next scene opens with the criminal stepping out of an elevator at police headquarters, handcuffed with the police officer walking behind him. Teresa asked, “How did that small officer get the handcuffs on the big guy, get him off the floor, and to the police station without his unlikely cooperation?”

Writers might be more sensitive to this than other readers, but that doesn’t excuse careless plotting. Readers deserve the extra effort it takes for us to examine our scenes and fill in the holes. A critique group can be invaluable in catching these plot holes. I’ve just gotten to the point in my writing where I am comfortable tossing out my writing and letting others guide me through the errors. Just knowing they will be reading and commenting on my work has increased my awareness of following each scene to its logical resolution. I’m even looking forward to their criticism next week. Well, almost. ;p

Helpful Links (add your own in the comments section; I will update the list):

How to Plot and Write a Novel

How to Write a Plot Outline

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