Visitors and then Some…

Today I had visitors at work:

My two grandsons, 6 yrs and 6 weeks, stayed with me for a while when their mom went to the doctor. The 6 week old was having tummy troubles so I let the 6 yr old go out into the narthex and listen to the organist practice.

Unbeknownst to me (juggling fretful baby), the organist went up into the balcony to play the baby grand piano and the 6 yr old took advantage of the empty stage to practice his own singing. His mom returned and just a minute passed before he came running into my office. “Nana, Mom, come watch Max play the piano upstairs.” We put him off and he insisted, “Come listen to Max and those people practice!” Well…..

As far as I knew until my daughter arrived, Max (the organist), the 2 boys and I were the only ones in the building. There is a ding that goes off every time an exterior door is opened and none had sounded after Max came in until my daughter arrived.

So naturally I asked, “What people?”

“The people in white suits.”

“You mean white hair? You saw someone with white hair?”

Big sigh. “No, Nana. Not Max. The two people in white suits were with him practicing the piano. Upstairs.”

“How did you see them upstairs?”

Another big sigh. “When I was on the stage. I saw them through the window.”

My daughter and I were both puzzled and we brushed him off a bit. Although quietly and out of his hearing, I did say to her, “Who could he be talking about? Did you see anyone when you came in?” She said she hadn’t and we gathered up both boys and I walked her to the car.

When the organist came back into the office I nonchalantly asked, “Did you have anyone practicing with you in the balcony?”

“Nope. Just me.”

This beautiful building I work in was built in 1858. Standing on the stage you can see up into the balcony where a gorgeous stained glass window illuminates the room. Today is very overcast and the sun wasn’t shining through the window but it is so large that the room is always lit. What did our little one see up there? Or perhaps whom? He didn’t specify whether the two people in white suits were male or female. I am not a believer in spooky things so I will go with my first instinct: The beautiful classical music that Max plays was accompanied this day by visiting angels who couldn’t pass by an opportunity to glorify the Creator in this lovely place He has provided for Worship.

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I Love Chocolate for Breakfast!

I’ve been in a life filled with torrential winds for months. Sometimes I’ve hidden, other times I’ve had to step up front and center. I don’t know if it’s the little glimpses of sunshine I’ve gotten this week, or that I’m finally over this last cold/flu, but I’m ready to change things up and stop letting life toss me around.

A few months ago, a couple friends and I had a Twitter thread discussing the pleasures of having chocolate for breakfast. I like chocolate throughout the day, but especially a little taste for breakfast. Part of my change up is indulging that desire. General Mills has made it a little easier with their chocolate Cheerios and I’ve discovered a wonderful tea from Tisano that is chocolate…oh my!

Now don’t get me wrong. I’m not embarking on a decadent or unhealthy approach to life and work. On the contrary, I’ve been exercising and eating well. In fact I am only 3 pounds away from what the doctor said was a good target weight and I’ve lost 20 pounds over the past 2 years! What I am doing is more of the things I let go because so many other things seemed more important.

The biggest lesson I’ve learned in my time in the storm is that guilt and regret are terribly negative influences. And undeserved guilt and false regrets are insulting to who I am meant to be. I love  to read. I love to write even more. With everything spinning around and around, taking a few minutes (or even an afternoon) to indulge in reading a new book made me feel like I was surely letting someone down. All the events made great excuses to avoid the real work of writing, which I know is my true calling.

So no more accepting undeserved guilt…and I’m working on fulfilling dreams and ambitions without excuse. It is a beautifully sunny day. The snow is melting a bit. Life is good.

So here’s how I start narrowing my focus to keep this blog relevant and interesting to me and my friends: I’m probably going to read a new book this weekend, I’m going to finish my new short story by tomorrow, and I’m going to have chocolate for breakfast every day. Join me on Monday, February 14 for a new look and new ways of indulging in little pleasures that keep life fun, healthy, and guilt-free.

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3 Reasons You Should Enter Book Giveaway Contests

I got a Writer’s Digest Facebook update today featuring a giveaway by Chuck Sambuchino, editor of the Guide to Literary Agents. Now really the giveaway is a shameless self-promotion for his books, but guess what? That’s reason number one you should enter giveaway contests:

  1. Following the giveaway contest rules helps other writers promote their work. Because when you post about the giveaway to receive extra chances in the drawing, your friends who may not have otherwise heard of Chuck Sambuchino and his new book, How to Survive a Garden Gnome Attack, get to learn about it. Case in point for me: Yesterday I featured Terry Odell’s blog as my Weekly Blog Recommendation (WBR). Today she posted a link back to Typing One-Handed on her blog. I use the WBR to share the places I like to visit in the blogosphere. Bonus for me, thanks to Terry, is that her readers will now know that I am also out here.
  2. Entering a contest where you have the opportunity to write a brief blurb about said contest will help you learn some basic marketing techniques, either to promote your work, or just your blog. This is really a great bonus — one of the hardest things for me is to state briefly what my book is about without going into too much detail. Training in brevity is important to the elevator pitch as well as synopsis writing.
  3. There is free stuff! In this case, Chuck is giving away a copy of Gnome Attack along with his two other books specifically for writers: 2011 Guide to Literary Agents and Formatting and Submitting Your Manuscript. Did I mention FREE?!? This giveaway is worth $68 retail. Considering the amount of money I personally spend on books, both in print and digitally, free is good!

By the way, if you are now intrigued by Chuck’s giveaway, you can find out more about it at the Guide to Literary Agents Editor’s Blog.

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3 Steps to Instant Gratification…My Love Affair With the Kindle App

So I have a BlackBerry Storm smart phone. It is the best phone I’ve had to this point. I am a tech junkie and have loaded and unloaded many megabytes of applications. I keep some for a little while then get bored and move on to the next BBBBA (Bigger, Better, BlackBerry Application). I started with games, then discovered eBook readers. I’ve tried 3 or 4 already. They feed my compulsive need to read. Recently I discovered the Kindle App for BlackBerry. I am totally in LOVE! It fulfills all my addictive reading needs:

1) Amazon has the amazing(!) 1-click® option… I find the book I want to download, press the 1-click® button and INSTANTLY it loads to my phone.

2) The Kindle App integrates perfectly into my phone’s design. I just click (press the screen) on the right side to INSTANTLY advance the pages and on the left side to go back.

3) The Kindle App remembers the last page I was reading and INSTANTLY opens to that page when I click the book name. I don’t have to remember where I was. I don’t even need to bookmarked it manually, but I can if I want.

I love being able to put as many books as my phone’s media card will hold. Some people collect music mp3s. I collect books.

My first downloaded book was What Hath God Wrought by Daniel Walker Howe so I could participate a GoodReads book club.

The rest of the books my current reading list:

Foreign Influence: A Thriller by Brad Thor

Winston’s War by Max Hastings

Delicious and Suspicious by Riley Adams (aka, Elizabeth Spann Craig)

Pretty is as Pretty Dies: A Myrtle Clover Mystery by Elizabeth Spann Craig

Death by Darjeeling by Laura Childs

Gunpowder Green by Laura Childs

Shades of Earl Grey by Laura Childs

While a digital reader will never replace books for the true aficionado, the Kindle App for BlackBerry suits me just fine. Yes, I have to wear my reading glasses when using my phone, but I have to when reading a book too. Eventually I would love to have a Kindle or Sony eBook reader, but for now I am enjoying being able to grab my phone from my purse or back pocket and sneak a couple of pages in while I’m waiting in line or for my dear Hubs to pump gas. At least now, I don’t have to give an account of myself for taking a book on a date! LOL

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What’s Up with Vampires? Confessions of a closet fan…

Ok, I admit it… I have read the whole Twilight saga. And yes, I saw the first two movies. No, I haven’t seen Eclipse…yet.

Yes, I like Dark Shadows, the 1960s cult classic.  No, I’m not fond of Interview with a Vampire — although it’s probably because a couple of the actors’ current public lives have turned me off to them personally. The story itself was intriguing, albeit, typical:  Vamp seeks soul… regrets past.

I’ve watched a few episodes of Moonlight on CBS. Cute vamp, cute mortal…same old stuff.

I had managed to totally avoid watching any of the The Vampire Diaries broadcast on the CW, until…

I got hives. The meds gave me insomnia. What else is a girl to watch all by herself in the middle of the night during a huge thunderstorm that was pouring torrential rains? Vampires.

And so, during my 36+ hours of feeling like the undead myself (minus the phenomenal strength and gory appetite), I watched the entire first season…all 22 episodes.

And yes, my BlackBerry calendar is now set to alert me to 9 pm, September 9 for the premiere of Season 2.

So what is up with vamps? Why are so many women and teens absolutely fascinated?

  • Well there is the ageless thing… They get to stay whatever age they were when they were ‘changed.’ (I would have wanted to have escaped the teen years for sure!)
  • Then there is the amazing strength, both physical and healing. Cure for the middle-aged sag???
  • How ’bout the lack of repercussions for misdeads? ‘Cept that whole stake in the heart thing.
  • If you get your vamp info from current YA lit, it’s mostly about the sex. (Understand the draw here.)

But on the whole, the vampires of current movie and literature rave are still angst-ridden and dissatisfied with their lots. Unless they’re the bad guys. They just rampage and destroy the perfectly happy(?) lives of the ‘good’ (or vegetarian) vamps.

And to step up on my quasi-feminist soap box for a minute…

How come, with the exception of Alice & Esme, all the female vampires are self-centered, raging pyscopaths? They get to be beautiful but are relegated to hateful side stories–not the main focus of any of the vamp stories I’ve read or watched. (Jane, Katherine, Claudia–Rosalie does have that turnaround in mood, eventually.) Even the bad male vampires have appealing plot lines because there is a chance they can become good guys eventually. (More on Damon Salvatore, played by Ian Somerhalder, in a bit.)

Most females in the stories are the mortal girls just begging (or thinking about begging) to be ‘turned’ by their hunky, heartbeat-less, boyfriends. Come on Bella, Elena, Beth, Victoria! Woman up!!!

My conclusion on the subject of living the life of the undead:

An eternity filled with angst, anger, regrets (plus always worrying about fire and wooden stakes)–is not my idea of a fun immortality. The stories appeal to the feelings of powerlessness in their fans. And the nurturing instinct in women to make it all right for those we love…

Now to Damon Salvatore

In the beginning of Season 1 of The Vampire Diaries, he is the evil brother trying to ruin everything for our hero, Stefan (played by Paul Wesley). Stefan is the very typical brooding, stuck at 17 years old, male vampire. Now at my undisclosed age, I have to deal with an “ick” factor when watching some of these hunky actors playing teens–so I am more drawn to adult male vamps. Damon (played oh-so-well by Ian Somerhalder) seems to fit right into what appeals to me: A gorgeous (adult) bad guy who seems to have some redeeming qualities…he will change, IF he can steal his brother’s love interest.

The season finale left us wondering just how Damon will be redeemed. That is the only reason I will be tuning in Thursdays this fall. No really!

PS: The vamp image at the top was my avatar, Tricia, for the few months I let myself procrastinate during my writing time playing Vampire Wars on Facebook. Even with my mature mindset, I still designed a slender, hot avatar with great hair! Plus her eye color matches mine. Don’t judge me…I’m only human… For now. *Just Kidding, my prudish friends! Remember, I’m a fiction/fantasy writer…*

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